Updates I went to a primary school reunion on Saturday and was shocked to find out that one of my classmates was already happily married and had a one-year-old son. You know what they say about this? Some Chinese would say, 'Hou meng jao ka yan lorrrrrr'

Means 'if you're lucky in life you'd be married already.'

I'm astounded.

As for me, did I learn to accept things? I've just realized the quality of the words, 'Don't take things at face value.'

So I'm learning to accept. And if you're reading this, and you're wondering why. Don't ask why. I don't know why.   ¶ 23:16